Monday, November 27, 2006

Sex Toys For Christmas

Sex toys for a christmas gift can be a great gift for both of you. Talk about the gift that keeps on giving. So give your sex life a little CPR and breath some life back into your sex life.

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Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Sex Toys & Female Orgasms

Sex Toys & Female Orgasms

When talking about the female orgasm a lot of times sex toys come to mind. Mostly because a lot of women out there have a hard time getting to an orgasm. Sure sex feels great but there are a lot of women out there who don't ever come to an orgasm. There are several reasons for this. One of witch is the fact that their lover does not know how to bring them to it. They don't know how to touch them or how to stimulate the right spots on their body.

The Lucky Few

However for those few women out there who have no problem getting to that elusive orgasm most of what is contained here is just another way to add pleasure to your already pleasurable situation. This group of women are very sensitive and even come with just penetration. Again these women are few and far between. For you ladies trying out some of the products and positions that you will see in this blog can just heighten your erotic pleasure.

Pleasure Points

If you are like most women orgasms don't come that easily for you. Let's talk a little about where the pleasure points are on most women and then we can talk about what you can use to get to that orgasm.

  • The Clitoris: The clitoris is by far the best way to create an orgasm. This is the most sensitive part of a woman's vagina.
  • The G-Spot: Most women have a g-spot and just have not found it but I assure you most of you have one and it can be a great way to have an explosive orgasm.
  • Anal Stimulation: Anal stimulation can be used to get a woman to a mind blowing orgasm, however first off a lot of women are uncomfortable with that kind of stimulation.
  • Straight Penetration: Like I said earlier there are some women that can have an orgasm from just straight penetration.

  • Jelly Dildo

    Let's break these down. Now as far as straight penetration goes if this kind of stimulation is what you like best then maybe you just need to be looking at a dildo of some sort. There are tons of different variations on this sex toy. One of the ones that I recommend for your first use is the jelly dildo. These dildo's are great because they are flexible not super hard like some of the other products out there. The example to the left here is a lavender jelly dildo. Notice that is resembles a real penis in shape and size. You can choose a bunch of different sizes as far as length and width with these dildo's. Start out with something like this for first timers and then move up to a realistic dildo or a multi-function dildo.

    G-spot Stimulation

    First lets talk about where the g-spot is located and then we can talk about how to stimulate it with a sex toy. Ok the women is laying on her back legs spread. Now have your lover take their right hand and put the palm up like you are reading the palm. Curl all your fingers back except the middle one. Lubricate this last finger and insert it into the woman's vagina most of the way in. Now start moving your finger up and down and maybe even in a circle on the top wall of her vagina towards her belly button. This is the area where the g-spot is. Now some women it is shorter and some it is deeper in there so the best way to find it is with a g-spot sex toy like the one to the right here. This sex toy has a bent tip on it so that you can use it to find the g-spot and massage it to an orgasm. There again there are a tremendous about of different toys out there that all do the same thing. What you need to be looking for is something high quality. Don't settle for a 10 dollar toy. You will be disappointed in it. After all how much is a great orgasm worth to you. If you buy a good sex toy it can give you hundreds of mind blowing orgasms. Another toy that you may want to look into is the multi-function vibrator that hits the g-spot and the clitoris at the same time. We will talk about them later on.

    Anal Stimulation

    Now I know that there are a lot of ladies out there that are scared or embarrassed by the whole anal thing. For those of you please take a look at XJays article on Anal Sex. The anal cavity on a woman or a man for that matter has a ton of nerve endings and that in turn lends to a lot of sensations that can lead to an extremely powerful orgasm. If fact there are woman out there that say that the anal orgasm is the most powerful. It takes a lot of practice and a special touch to make anal intercourse pleasurable. You must take your time and make sure that you use plenty of lubricant for this kind of sex. As far as sex toys go there are several different variations of anal sex toys. The butt plug to the left here is a favorite because of its unique shape. The sex toy allows for penetration but the flared bottom keeps it from disappearing. There are also sex toys called anal beads. I would leave the beads to the more advanced anal sex adventures.

    Clitoral stimulation

    Now I know you are looking at this cone thing to the right here and are saying to yourself what the heck is that. The cone is a revolutionary new sex toy that can be used in many different ways to stimulate different parts of the body. The cone has a flexible texture and kind of molds to the position that you want it to. The best part is that it vibrates and a bunch of different speeds and even has a climax button. You can use the cone or many other sex toys to vibrate your clitoris to an explosive orgasm. See most women this is the only way that they can have an orgasm is with a lot of attention being payed to the clitoris. Now if your lover doesn't know how to please your clitoris or you are just looking to have some fun there are a ton of different kinds of clitoral stimulators on the market. One of the very best is the multi-function vibrators. They are most commonly referred to as rabbit or beaver style vibrators. These vibrators have several different motions to help bring you to an orgasm. The heads and body of these vibrators rotate and stimulate your g-spot on the inside and some even have beads that rotate and stimulate the opening of the vagina. On the outside of the vibrator there is a little motor that vibrates the clitoris at the same time. Now for those of you that have tried everything out there the multi-function rabbit style vibrators are the best for getting out the hardest most stubborn orgasm. There is an example of one of these sex toys right here at the bottom.

    Like I said there are tons of different variations on each one of these sex toys and you need to find out witch ones are going to fit you the best. Remember you get what you pay for.

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